I love doing adventurous things, trying something new, traveling. However, I have little to no alone time. So for most of the past couple of years, my toddler has gone with me on my artist's dates. Sometimes I have to cut them short, and I don't have the luxury of just sitting still with my thoughts, at least not until later in the day when he's sleeping. But I get to share my love of art, nature, and adventure with my son, and because I find myself pointing out scenery or music or art that I particularly enjoy, I still manage to fit in some deep thought every so often (yes, that's my tongue in my cheek). And besides, little kids are all about play and fun and adventure. Two year olds have no inhibitions. They just do and go, laugh and cry, spin and run and drop to the ground to play with something that catches their eye. They give every moment their all. What better companion for an artist's date?
This past weekend we headed to Old Town and listened to Shelley Morningsong and watched a buffalo dance. Oh, and this guy and his cat were there, appreciating the show:
We listened to contemporary Native American music, enjoyed the dancing, and got to people watch. My son flirted with a five year old, played in the dirt, and picked a flower he probably should have left alone. If only it hadn't been as hot as Hades, it would've been a perfect afternoon.
Here's a list of a hundred ideas for an artist's date. Go, have fun, play, explore! And if you have any ideas for an artist's date, please share.
I haven't read the Artist's Way, but I've often told myself I should do this sort of thing. Even that I should make a habit of doing this kind of thing. But, actually, I don't do it. It turns out to be more important to do another hour of work, or write another 1000 words, or do the laundry. And then I forget that I even meant to. Thanks for the reminder. I'm glad someone's doing it! (And the list is great).
ReplyDeleteI don't do this sort of thing often, but when I do, I always feel energized and ready to tackle whatever project I'm working on.
DeleteThat is such a great article, for us writer moms especially! My 4 and 2 year olds have accompanied me as I trecked through cemeteries, enjoyed a Medieval Faire, and explored mummies in a museum. You're right, they don't always let you stay as long as you'd like, but they dive right in, and often times, are a great excuse to try something new. You can disguise your odd interests in the name of educating your children!
ReplyDeleteThose sound like great adventures, thanks for sharing! I agree that educating your children provides a great excuse for enjoying odd activities.
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